Until the next round of court appearances and/or criminal charges comes round, I think what we’re going to be seeing is a steady trickle of stories of people who either committed suicide – or want to – with the “help” of Final Exit Network (FEN). Predictably, with few exceptions, the surviving family members will defend the Final Exit Network, having already told their “loved one” that they were “accepting” of the suicide. (Note: there has been one exception to that trend – and I’ll probably get to write about that tomorrow)
The latest entry in that line of stories comes today, published in the Detroit News. It tells the story of the planned suicide of Maxine Poris – through the accounts of FEN members, her correspondence, and her “accepting” daughters.
Anyone reading with a critical eye can read a story of a woman dealing with the pain and depression that is part of fibromyalgia – and someone who appears to have been pretty isolated. In a story like this, we’re not allowed to ask what other kinds of treatments or supports might have helped her live her life, since we are not allowed to ask the dead if maybe they hadn’t really run out of options, after all. Nor are we allowed to ask how hard her daughters talked against her decision or denied the idea that she would be a “burden” on them if she lived with one of them.
Here is a link to the story, along with a quote that AP reporter Greg Blustein must have saved from a previous interview with me. I don’t recall saying this exactly this way, since the subject was suicide and not killing – or outright killing, anyway. But Blustein has the notes and it’s not something I disagree with:
Final Exit’s critics are many. “Instead of dealing with ways to support” the sick and the disabled, “we can pat ourselves on the back and say we’re compassionate and kill them,” said Stephen Drake of Not Dead Yet, an advocacy group for the disabled that opposes assisted suicide and euthanasia.
This could be a long and nasty ride – and just beginning. –Stephen Drake


Over the years, we’ve gotten thoroughly sick and tired of the repeated use of the myths surrounding pet euthanasia as an argument in favor of providing the same “service” for humans. The myth seems to gaining new vigor in recent months.